I'm 70 and I have been told my whole life that I would regret being so independent, so private, so comfortable alone — and now everyone my age is suddenly worried about loneliness, and I am quietly thriving in the exact life I was warned would leave me empty, and I am not gloating about it, I am simply noticing that the people who told me I needed to be more social are now the ones struggling to be by themselves
Apr 28, 2026
Marlene Martin