I'm 70 and I've come to understand that my adult children check on me the way you check on a houseplant — regularly, dutifully, with mild concern about whether I'm getting enough of what I need — and the love is real and the obligation is real and the conversation rarely goes deeper than the watering schedule, and I cannot say so out loud because doing so would sound ungrateful for a routine they have built specifically to be loving
Apr 29, 2026
Marlene Martin